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Ultimate Embroidery Guide for Beginners

Banner picture showing multiple embroidery designs by Paraffle Trying to start a new hobby like embroidery can seem daunting at first - but it needn't be!

This page will guide you through the basics of starting embroidery, and some of the FAQs that beginners have - so let's dive in!

What Do I Need to Start Embroidery?

You don't need much to start your own embroidery project! Here is a quick guide to all the basics, and I've written more in-depth articles for most of these if you're looking for more information on them.


A medium weight cotton fabric is usually best for starting embroidery. A material too thin or stretchy will warp or scrunch up when you stitch on it; and anything too thick or heavy will really hurt your fingers after a while!

My favourite fabric is Klona cotton, but other medium weight cottons, calico, linen, or a thicker polycotton will also work just fine. Check out my handy guide for the best embroidery fabrics.

Embroidery Hoop

There's loads of different types of embroidery hoops out there - the more experienced you are, the more you'll know which you prefer! For starting out, any wooden hoop with a screw top will work fine - I often use a simple bamboo hoop like this one (shown in photo).

When buying an embroidery hoop, it's important to think about what the hoop is for - is it for holding the fabric whilst you embroider (A 'working' hoop) or is it for displaying the finished piece (A 'display' embroidery hoop)? Or do you want one hoop that can do both?

There are a couple of main differences between those two types. If you're looking for a working hoop, then you need one that can be tightened and loosened to hold the fabric taught and allow you to easily loosen it to change the position of the fabric in the hoop. These will almost always be a screw top hoop made from a flexible type of wood - usually bamboo. The other difference between working hoops and display hoops is price - working hoops are cheaper, because the wood is not finished to a 'display' quality.

For Display embroidery hoops, these don't need to be able to tighten, so can be made from less flexible wood - which allows for a wider range of woods that can be used to make them since it doesn't need to be flexible. The reason these don't need to be able to tighten is that you can tighten the fabric when you fit it using stitching - which you can't do when you're working on a piece, because if you stitched it tight then you'd need to unstitch it to reposition the fabric! Display hoops come with a metal hanging ring instead of a screw top. The display embroidery hoops I sell are made from European beech wood.

If you're looking for more information, take a look at my short guide on how to choose and use an Embroidery hoop.

Embroidery Needle

It might go without saying that embroidery needles are best for embroidery - but other types will work, too! embroidery needles are finer than cross stitch needles, as the fabric used in embroidery is normally a much tighter weave than the aida fabric used in cross stitch.

I usually use a needle between sizes 7 and 9 for my embroidery, as they're best for working with 2 strands of thread, which is the number of strands I recommend using in my kits.

As you get more experienced with embroidery, you can change the number of strands you use to create different effects - when you do this, you might find it easier to use a larger or smaller embroidery needle - needles are sold in multi-packs, and you can either buy a multi-pack of one particular size, or you can buy a multi-pack of a range of embroidery needle sizes.

Photo of embroidery needle atop fabric

Embroidery Thread

The best thread for hand embroidery (in my experience) is DMC stranded cotton - and this is my favourite thread to work with, too!

Embroidery thread is almost always made from cotton or silk, and has 6 strands which is great as it can be separated out to the thickness that you like. The thread is sold in skeins, which are 8m in length - so if you use two strands, one skein can do you good for 24m of stitching. There's tonnes of other thread out there, too! My second favourite threads are Anchor - and there's even handy colour charts online, where you can find the closest colour matches between DMC and Anchor threads. If you're looking for more information check out my guide on the best Embroidery threads.

A pattern

Your pattern is just the design that you'll be stitching - which is the most exciting part!

I've created downloadable embroidery patterns for all of my designs, and there's loads of creative embroidery artists that do the same - so there's a world of designs to choose from. If you're an arty type - or want to stitch something totally individual - then get sketching! You can sketch your pattern on to regular paper, as this can be transferred onto the fabric quite easily - see below! If you're a beginner, for sketching your own patterns it's best to use line drawings, without too much shading - this can develop as you get used to the stitches. It's just easier to see and transfer a line drawing as opposed to a sketch! And if you're looking for a simple free pattern to get started with, you're welcome to download my free embroidery pattern here - I plan to add more free patterns in the future too!
Photo of paraffle blue whale embroidery pattern on navy fabric

A transfer method

Finally, you'll need a way to transfer your pattern to fabric.

My favourite method is by using dressmakers' carbon paper, which you can use to transfer a pattern from paper to the fabric. It's quite a simple process, but there are a few things to be aware of - I recently made a tutorial and video on how to use carbon paper on fabric, which shows you the process along with some tips.

Embroidery tools for beginners

There's loads of tools that you can also use to get started in embroidery!

Some are obvious - like a couple of good pairs of scissors. Others are less obvious - but can be great little investments if you're keen to spend more time embroidering!

One of my favourite embroidery tools is my wooden hoop stand - perfect for holding my hoops in place and preventing achy fingers or arms.

I love my magnetic needle minder, too - I'm forever dropping needles, so it's great to have an accessory that keeps them safe!

Read my guide to embroidery tools for beginners here.

Photo of embroidery scissors

Other FAQs…

Starting embroidery can be as difficult as you want to be! Some basic stitches (like Back Stitch) are great for creating simple shapes, and are quite easy to get the hang of. Other techniques (like French Knots) can be a bit trickier, and require a certain knack - but there's plenty of tutorials and stitch guides to help you out along the way! IIf you're looking for more information on how difficult embroidery is, I've written more extensively on the question here.

How long does embroidery take?

..and how long does it take to get good at embroidery? It totally depends on the pattern or design that you choose! Some of my simpler designs (like the Rainbow) take me about 4 or 5 hours to complete. Other, more complicated, designs like the Elephant take a bit longer - perhaps 9 or 10 hours. The stitches are the same level of difficulty, but the Elephant is just a bit bigger! Embroidery takes a bit of practice, but because the stitches are small - and are repeated a number of times - then it's easy to master each stitch, without it taking too long!
Photo of rainbow embroidery pattern

What if I make a mistake on my embroidery?

It's fine!

My favourite thing about embroidery is that its very forgiving. Unless you're using a super delicate fabric, or somehow chop a big hole in it, then it's really easy to undo mistakes.

If it's a stitch that's gone off course, just unthread your needle, then use it to catch hold of and undo whichever stitches you don't like.

And if it's a big old knot - they happen sometimes, too! - then just snip off that bit of thread and tie it down at that back (if it's long enough), to stop previous stitches loosening. Then just carry on from where you left off!

...If you hear someone say that they have to 'frog' a bit of embroidery, it just means that they're undoing it - 'rip it' = 'ribbit'. It happens to everyone!

I've only done cross stitch - can I do embroidery?


They're two different skills, but chances are that if you've practiced cross stitch, you'll find it easy to transition into embroidery. Embroidery has a wider range of stitches than cross stitch does - but already doing a needle craft is a great foundation for learning more techniques!

I prefer embroidery to cross stitch because there's a bit more freedom with it - you can start on any part of a design that you like, and there's no need to count stitches. Plus, if you make a mistake then you don't need to undo a whole row (or more!) - you can just take out the tiny section that's not quite right and go from there!

Photo of cross stitch

3 Responses



January 06, 2023

Currently doing the Fox (really cute!) but I’m finding it hard to differentiate between which part needs single stitches and which ones need backstitch, as the icons on the key are identical when translated onto the pattern; can you help?
Also, I’m wondering how much thread to use on each part- I’ve already split it, but wasn’t 100% sure :)
Paraffle Embroidery replied:
Hi Lauren, thanks for commenting! For the Fox (and most other patterns), I like to use 2 strands out of the 6 :) The single stitches are the very short dashes (often straight on their own or next to a couple of French Knots); and the Back Stitch are the slightly larger shapes (often curved or tear drop shaped!). Let me know if you have any other questions – and enjoy!

Sammy (Paraffle)

Sammy (Paraffle)

September 24, 2020

Hi @Lauren! Yep, I almost always split the thread when I’m stitching – I use 2 out of the 6 strands each time :)

Lauren McNicholl

Lauren McNicholl

September 21, 2020

I have The peacock one. Do I need to split the thread?

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